Everyone knows that men are more likely to watch and enjoy pornography than women. In fact, it is hard to find a man in the prime of life who doesn’t look at porn at least a few times a month. But did you know the number of women logging on to internet porn sites is higher than ever? Some studies suggest that 60% of women look at internet porn!

Still, the numbers are far higher for men. Single males watch about an hour of porn a week to satisfy their sexual urges; men in relationships watch about half of that. Not included in these numbers are all the men who call up phone sex services for a little fun. The operators can give live stimulation for your imagination.

One thing that draws many people to porn is that they can enjoy whatever type of sex they enjoy without embarrassment or shame. For lots of people, sexual inhibition has to do with being uncomfortable with what you enjoy when in the presence of another person. Many people assume women have more sexual inhibitions than men and this may be a reason for the rising number of women looking at porn.

Being inhibited can limit your ability to have happy, healthy sex with another person. Both men and women suffer inhibitions. Society often tells us that liking sex is dirty or shameful, a false notion that can inhibit the expression of sexuality. Thinking what we are doing is bad in some way can make us feel uncomfortable, shy and even ashamed while doing it. It makes sense that these feelings would get in the way of feeling confident.

Another common sexual inhibition for both genders is the idea of doing sex “wrong”. For instance, one in three people feel embarrassed that they may make too much noise during sex. This inhibits them from fully expressing themselves during sex. Having negative body image that makes you worry about appearing unattractive during sex can also prohibit you from letting go and really enjoying yourself.

So the question is, of course, how to overcome these inhibitions. Getting rid of negative feelings about sex in general is key to letting go of inhibition and enjoying a full sex life. Perhaps the best way to do so is to live an active fantasy life. In your imagination, you can envision yourself as uninhibited. And if you can imagine it, you can do it. Phone sex and pornography can both lend to this healthy imagining of yourself more sexually confident.

Turning to a phone sex operator to practice being confident with your sexuality is a great way to overcome the inhibitions that are making you too timid to enjoy the things you like.

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Recent research reports that the average man has sexual thoughts about 400 or more times per day. Although, on the average, men think of sex more often than women, a typical female also has multiple sexual thoughts each day.
Studies also show that smart phones and texting have revolutionized how people communicate. Therefore, it’s no surprise that the quick, easy and private communication method of texting combined with men and women’s sexual thoughts and desires to create the popular trend known as sexting.

What is it?

Sexual texting is using a smart phone or other digital device like a tablet to share sexually explicit thoughts, ideas, photographs or videos in a completely private manner.

Is it a safe way to enjoy phone sex?

Sexually charged, short, text messages or sexual images can be easily, discretely and safely exchanged between consenting adults without worry. By using your smart phone, no one will overhear your sexual exchanges nor will anyone be involved in the processing of photos or videos.

What are the most common advantages to sending sext messages?

There are many sexting advantages besides having a deeper sense of privacy and confidentiality. You can send sexy texts or images from anywhere you are–and receive them anywhere you are–providing you have access to your smart phone.
You can also reread or review text or images that have been sent to you, or review text or images you have sent by saving them on your phone.
Uploading or downloading photos or videos on the internet may be traced while sending photos or videos via texting is far more secure.
Sharing sexy phone texts is a safe way to enjoy sexual excitement and release without worries about pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.

Is sending sexual texts considered cheating?

Psychologists agree that sexual fantasies are completely normal, and many people experience them frequently. Sexual fantasies can enhance your relationship with your sex partner and add a new layer of excitement even to a long-term relationship that may appear to have gone stale.
Sending sexual text messages or photos is a form of safe sex where there’s no physical contact, so for many people, it is not considered cheating but just a form of healthy fantasy and sexual titillation.

Can I sext someone from work or school?

Sharing sext messages is possible anywhere you can make a phone call. No one can hear or see what you’re doing, so you can sext anytime you have some spare time and want to partake in some sexual fun. Go ahead, sext on your lunch hour or as a break from studying in the university library. If you have someone who enjoys sharing sexual fantasies or photos with you, sending sexually themed text messages is a great way to add spice and sexual excitement to your relationship.

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In cash strapped times like these, people are increasingly looking for creative and unconventional means to generate income. Job openings are scarce and companies have learned to do more with less as a result of the recession. The economy has been permanently restructured. There is hope, however. For the out-of-work woman with an entrepreneurial spirit, phone sex operating should be an appealing career choice.

Getting Started

PSO positions can be found on job boards such as SexyJobs.com or by directly contacting dispatch companies like LipService.net, ChatRecruit.com, or IasXXX.com. Additionally, there are PSO communities, PhoneSex.yuku.com being one example, that can assist a PSO or an aspiring PSO find work. Those who are just starting are advised to seek employment with a dispatch company to gain experience rather than venture out independently. It’s a guaranteed paycheck and can provide invaluable knowledge of the industry and proper practices.

Excelling as a PSO

On average, PSOs make anywhere from $1K to $3K monthly, depending on employment status (dispatch companies might fix the wage regardless of success/conversion rate). As with any job, success is not guaranteed. It requires hard work and a capacity to self-evaluate in order to improve. There are several important qualifications and characteristics all effective PSOs possess:


The best PSOs are well versed in sexual topics (fetishes, terminology). Callers are often fetishized and want their Phone Sex Operators to be knowledgeable of all things sexual. The give-and-take of phone sex is much more energetic if the PSO is familiar with callers’ exotic and various desires. Pornography is a great resource for this type of research. Time spent with adult content means more comfort with discussing topics of a sexual nature. The callers are likely watching porn and what they see often becomes their fantasy. They want the girl in the movie who is open to doing anything.

Conversation Skills

Practicing conversational skills is a must. The best phone sex operators listen intently and respond enthusiastically with good follow-up questions. Effective call and response is essential to any phone sex experience.


The number one quality you need is respect. Your clients have many valid reasons for seeking your services. Whether you work for a paid service or a free phone sex service, respect for your client enhances your client’s phone sex experience.

Creativity and Imagination

There’s a level of fantasy in phone sex. Each caller’s idea of the ideal fantasy is unique. Acting and being able to take clues from a caller enhances the sexual experience – the better the fantasy, the better the conversation. Stoke the imagination and create a sense of mystery for your caller.


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