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FUN FACT: Did you know pornography has been the most dominate use of the Internet since its inception until very recently? As of then social networking has finally passed porn as society’s Internet habit. But that is beside the point. Check this out:

Welcome to America: Land of the free and home of the most Internet porn in the world. According to a study, USA hosts 60 percent, or 428 million pages, of the world’s porn. The Netherlands, which has 187 million pages for a population of 17 million porn-hungry people, comes in second to the US. The UK came in 3rd with 52 million pages, or about one for every person.

The Netherlands, besides it’s famous sex shows and red light districts, is home of AMSIX or the Amsterdam Internet Exchange, which is the world’s biggest data transport, handling 10 per cent of the planet’s online traffic. What seems to make Holland particularly interesting is that it is a sexually liberal country and that many of the web hosting companies are located there and not regulated much at all. Thus, the dominance of adult material streamed to the population.

Sure, the US is falling behind in a lot of ways, but it’s definitely winning in porn!

What’s surprising is how hard it is to reconcile the contrast between adult material and the things that can’t be shown or said on mainstream TV in the US. We produce most of the adult content in the world, yet censorship on regular TV is so conservative.

And guess what! At the center of all this, California is the heartland of the US porn industry, churning out 66% of all content made in the US as a whole.

According to a web safety expert, it seems cultural factors play a big part in the numbers collected regarding Internet porn saturation in these countries. But the statistics are not based merely on these observations. More so, the figures reflect not where web pornography is consumed, but the countries where ever-growing supplies of dirty pictures and videos are stashed on servers.

Here are some fun statistics you may not have known about Internet Porn:

Every second over $3,000 is spent on Internet pornography
Every second over 28,000 people are viewing Internet pornography
Every second over 370 people are typing adult search terms
Every 39 minutes a new pornographic video is created in the USA

After all that, I think it’s safe to say porn isn’t going anywhere. Unless someone shuts down the Internet, pornography will continue to be an online powerhouse.

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Stay-at-home moms choose phone sex

Want to talk to a hot MILF and know that this hot mom you’d like to – well you know – “talk to”, is truly that Mrs. Robinson you’ve always fantasized about? Well, studies have proven that there has been a huge increase in stay at home moms (wo)manning the lines. They’re married, they have kids, and they’re ready for action.

Here is a bit of statistics for your informative pleasure: Did you know, the number of mothers of young children seeking out phone sex work has jumped 400% in the past 18 months alone? These are real live MILFs on the other end of the line. There is no pretending.

During the current economic recession, stay at home moms are looking for a little extra income and are finding phone sex operation and increasingly attractive option. They have the experience you yearn for. They know what they want and will give you everything you crave and more.

Mom’s need help too. With little effort they can sometimes earn hundreds of dollars a day. Remember, a happy mommy is a sexy mommy and she wants you to be the one to put that smile on her face…and anything else you might like ; )

One hot MILF stated “I have the ability to bring in a little extra each month, and sometimes a lot extra each month, and be able to not have to worry about how and where me and my son are going to get food or if the electric bills are going to be shut off, that’s a big deal. Phone sex helps me provide financial support for my child.”

So if you’ve ever wondered who’s on the other end, you’d better believe she’s hot, she’s experienced and she aims to please.

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What is Dirty Talk?

Sex play involving sensual/ sexual phrasing in order to drive one’s partner or oneself wild through words and imagination to heighten sexual pleasure before and during sex, expressing wants and needs in the heat of the moment. Here are some good “dirty talking” tips for HOT phone sex action:

Start Slow

· Don’t feel pressured to rush into things.
· A great way to start is by describing out loud what is happening to your body when aroused or what you would like the PSO (Phone Sex Operator) to do to you if she were there.

It’s Not What You Say But How You Say It

· You may use your voice and sounds: moans, groans, sighs; whispering and screaming. You can sound commanding and harsh, submissive and uncertain, and everywhere in between.
· Tell the PSO something you’re going to do and something you want her to do to you right now.
· Give her an ego boost. Talk about her body and tell her about your favorite part of her body.
· Slow down and tell her things in more detail than you normally would.

Watch her breathing
· If she’s very aroused her breathing will be that much heavier.

Be Genuine
· Whatever role you are playing, be it yourself or a specific persona, it needs to include you.
· Including yourself in the role you are playing makes it more authentic and real and in turn more enjoyable.

Find your dirty voice
· When talking dirty you will need to find your own way of doing so. It can be in a deep voice or soft whispers.
· If you are still unsure about talking dirty you can even create a different persona in which you are comfortable.
· Your tone of voice will impact sex talk, because you will have to convey more emotion through the phone since body movement can’t.

Expand your vocabulary
· In a lot of cases your partner might ask you to use “filthy” words or use slang. Try your best to avoid using clinical terms such as penis or vagina.
· If you are at a loss, raunchy books or even watching porn can be a useful source.

Practice
· Practice talking dirty when you are alone.
· You can even try masturbating while fantasizing. It might give you a more creative incentive.

Don’t be afraid to get a little aggressive
· Be the boss and tell her exactly what you want her to do.
· You can take turns giving orders.
· After you’ve been the boss for a while, if it suits you, try being a bit more “submissive” and do whatever she wants.

The Soft-core Dirty Talk
The soft-core version is a great way to start with dirty talk. Stick with the words you already know. These work well and you can gradually add new naughty words and phrases here and there during sex. No one said dirty talk has to always be vulgar.

Examples:
– “I want you so bad.”
– “Your wish is my command.”
– “I love the things you do with your tongue.”
– “I love what you’re doing with your lips”
– “I love it when you touch me there”
– “I love kissing your neck”
– “Baby, don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that!”
– “I can’t believe what you’re doing! Please don’t stop!”

The Hard-core Dirty Talk
Swear words and slang words.
Examples:
– “I want you to rub your pussy all over my face”
– “I want to spread my juices all over your tits”
– “Tell me how you play with yourself”
– “Lie back and shut your mouth. I’m going to make you cum until you can’t breathe!”
– “Touch yourself and let me watch you”
– “Shut up! Ill fuck you whenever I want, naughty little whore!”
– “I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.”
– “Do you like my big cock? Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.”
– “Don’t you dare cum until I say you can!”
– “Get on your hands and knees, sweetheart…and wait like a good girl.”
– “Spread your legs wide for me, sweet darling. Your body is mine tonight.”
– “You little slut, I’m going to fuck you till you can’t walk! Ready?”
– “I could spend hours between your legs; teasing…lapping; sipping; tasting you.”
– “Come over here, bad girl, and lick my balls before I explode in your face.”

Hope this helps…Have fun…

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Dirty details about the wildest scenarios clients “fantasized” about.

“I think phone sex helps people to live out their fantasies where they can’t in real life.” – Alena G.

These are some confessions we have gathered which depict some of the strange requests PSOs have experienced. Enjoy:

• Buying Condoms

“Probably by far the weirdest one was an old guy (in his 60s or 70s) who wanted me to pretend to be a cashier who sold him condoms. For literally hours, he would pretend he was buying condoms. I would say the same lines over and over again ‘getting lucky tonight?’ ‘Your total is $3.75’ ‘would you like a receipt?’ and ‘good luck!’ Each successive time, he would change his penis size. So crazy – I wish I was making this stuff up.”
–  Faith S.

• The Ghost in The Diaper

“I had a guy who wanted to pretend to be a ghost that lived inside my diaper, and I was supposed to talk to him as if he was my diaper. ‘O diaper, you’re so soft on my bottom…oh!’ I think I’m going to tinkle soon, diaper… I’m going to make you all warm and wet…I wasn’t sure how to feel about this one but it sure was fun and made me smile when it was over and done…on to the next.”
– Rose M.

• The Bad Girl

“He wanted me to describe myself as a ‘bad girl’ and tell him about all my piercings and tattoos and why I got them. Of course, I didn’t have any but pretending is the name of the game. He wanted to paint my nails black and asked me why I was such a bad girl and why I needed a bare bottom spanking. He wanted me to get on his lap and bite down on my lip until it was sore – then described how he put his fingers in my mouth to see how wet it was. This wasn’t like a normal Dom/sub interaction, but I felt he was in need of taking some form of control. I enjoyed it more than I thought I would.”
– Molly M.

• Animal Costumes

“Wanted me to pretend I was dressed up in one of those plush animal costumes. He wanted us to be two squirrels fighting over his nuts. Although this did not make sense to me, this was the first time hearing such a fetish. I went along with it and proceeded to make rodent sounds to the best of my ability. It turned out to be crazy fun and I really got into it!”
– Hannah S.

• The Voyeur

“He wanted me to open all my windows and turn on all the lights and pleasure myself in the nude while he watched with binoculars from across the street. He asked if I lived in an area surrounded by other houses or buildings and I said yes. I told him I live in an apartment building in a congested city where you can’t look out your own window without a view of someone’s kitchen or living room. I can’t say this is the strangest thing anyone has ever requested – but I did it, because I love my job…and love being a dirty, nasty girl.”
– Gabrielle A.

• Just Want to Talk

“I’ve had a caller who wanted me to cheer him up before. He didn’t want sex, he just wanted someone to talk to. He had just lost his job, and his daughter was reassigned custody to her mother because he had to move cities for a new job. He was so nice, and I really felt for him. I ended up not charging him.”
– Jennifer L.

As you can see Fetishes, and the wide variety of people who call, are widespread – and are not abnormal in ANY way.

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Curious about sex? How about a global tour of the best sex museums in the world? Want to spice up your love life or just have a sexy excursion with a certain female in your life? These are some of the greatest sex and erotic art museums in the world and they are all open to the public. So delve deep into your innermost sexuality and encounter the erotic experience of a lifetime.

Here are the top six on our list:

1. Venustempel – Amsterdam, Netherlands

The Venustempel, otherwise known as the Temple of Venus, is the world’s first and oldest sex museum. It is located at the center of Amsterdam and observes many aspects of sensual love through the ages. This museum displays an extensive collection of erotic pictures, paintings, recordings and more. Venustempel embodies the highly sexualized nature of the city, showcasing 4,000 year-old artifacts in its “Sex Through the Ages” exhibit, testing modern views and accusations that today’s society is too “loose.” A great choice if you so happen to be traveling through this fine European city.

(Amsterdam is known for it’s world famous museums but I’m sure you will enjoy this one the most.)

2. Museum of Sex – New York City, New York

Hosting 15 exhibits, 5 virtual installations and more than 15,000 erotic artifacts New York’s Museum of Sex proves to be a go-to place if you are into that sort of thing. But of course you are J. Unlike the more touristy, specialty sex museums this New York City hotspot is run by a board of advisers whose mission is sex education. This museum is dedicated to the history, evolution and cultural significance of human sexuality focusing on a variety of sexual preferences and subcultures, including lesbian and gay history and erotica, BDSM, pornography , and sex work. So come on by the Museum of Sex if you’re not so inclined to leave the country just yet.

(But there’s more…)

3. Erotic Heritage Museum – Las Vegas, Nevada

If you thought New York sounded exciting. You’ll be overjoyed to hear there is a world famous museum in our very own Sin City. That’s right; Las Vegas is home to the Erotic Heritage Museum. This museum has nine galleries featuring pictures, films and performance art. This museum is dedicated to sex appreciation of all kinds. And if you thought that was overly stimulating you will be delightfully surprised to experience any S&M fan’s dream come true, the House of Gord exhibit, showcasing the allure of ultra bondage. Something that really caught my attention, though, was the “Toilet Humor” exhibit. Feel free to stop by the bathroom for a good laugh at the countless dirty jokes graffitied on the walls. But don’t be afraid to make your own contribution. And last, but not least, this one really takes the cake on interactivity offering workshops, lectures, and film clubs, even live performance, erotic poetry, dance and music. The museum’s philosophy leaves you with the idea that many of us will agree upon stating that sexual pleasure and fun are natural aspects of the human experience and that such pleasure must be made available to all.

(Moving along…)

4. Musee de L’Erotisme – Paris, France

This museum is quite unique in itself. The Musee de L’Erotisme is devoted to the art of making love and the preservation of artifacts throughout the ages. Featured along its seven floors are four permanent exhibits and an array of other interesting displays. Some of these include, but are not limited to; the Contemporary Art Exhibit, the Brothel Exhibit, and the Sacred Art Exhibit, displaying amulets, masks and spiritual objects used in an assortment of sexual celebrations. The collection ranges from the ancient religious art of India, Japan and Africa right up to contemporary art with a strictly erotic focus. Simply put, this museum will culturally engage the most curious of minds.

(Traveling through? This is the place to be.)

5. Sex Machines Museum – Prague, Czech Republic

Sex Machines Museum? Even the name sounds intriguing. Doesn’t it? We’ll this museum is exactly what it says it is. Imagine: More than 200 sex appliances scattered throughout three floors showcasing an abundance of extraordinary and unusual ways people pleasure themselves. The museum even features it’s very own cinema displaying age-old erotic films, one in particular, “Ladies’ Cabinet” being one of the very first scenes in history to capture a threesome. Throughout the rest of the museum you will find collections including body harnesses, instruments of sexual stimulation of all types, and chairs designed for “absolute domination.” These are among the many exciting displays you will witness while perusing the museum’s grounds. You won’t want to miss this!

(So strap your self in and enjoy this kinky experience)

6. Erotic Art Museum – Hamburg, Germany

And last but not least, the great sex museum of Hamburg Germany. Open 365 days a year, this museum displays the world’s largest publicly accessible collection of sexualized art. With more than 1,000 works of art illustrating that anything is possible on paper and canvas, including sex, your mind is in for a pleasant bender. Although Hamburg is famous for its erotic atmosphere, this museum takes a more intellectual look at sex, featuring an international collection of erotic artifacts from throughout history. Next to bars, strip shows, gambling houses, and sex shops, the unusual museum has found its place in an old hat factory. Of course the main subject is eroticism, but not from a pornographic, but from an artistic point of view. If you’re tired of hitting all the same old strip clubs and watching porn from home come on by and educate your self on the subject of erotic love.

(You will never forget this!)

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1. Have everything ready. Feel free to have whatever “implements” or “toys” you want ready, and let your mind wander ahead of time as to what kind of scenario you are into (be visual in your descriptions). If you can both tap into the fantasy, you will both get the most out of the situation.

2. It’s ok to think with your dick. Make sure you are in the mood. Maybe watch a little pornography to get things going. Also, letting what you’re feeling come out through breathing or moans letting her know what she is doing works. Make it “real” and let her know how you are responding to her being erotic just for you.

3. Don’t be shy and tell them anything you want – be creative. Be as naughty as you want. Nothing is taboo. These girls want to hear it all and they will not judge you. That is what they are here for.

4. This is YOUR experience – you are in control, and she is here COMPLETELY for YOU! Take charge and have her show you how much she wants it, embrace how horny you are getting her too!

5. And most importantly, have fun!

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Hello there phone sexers! It’s been a while since we’ve updated you on the happenings in the phone sex and adult world. Well, we’re back, and without further ado, here’s the latest:

For all the folks in Tempe, AZ, you’re in for a treat. Stray Cat Theater will be presenting the cult hit Chicks With Dicks from April 19 through May 11. We’ve heard tremendous reviews about this play and recommend it to anyone with a crass sense of humor and who likes their women a little… extra-oridnary.

Looks like Rob Kardashian’s been hanging with paid escorts these days. Rob, play it safe (and have fun at the same time) with some phone sex man, seriously.

And for all the Facebookers, beware of a new virus out there that’s distributing child pornography. Posts begin with “Watch if you’re curious…”. Be on the lookout people, don’t say we didn’t warn ya!

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Didn’t think another wrinkle in the Petraeus-Broadwell-Allen-Kelley scandal (enough hyphens?) would involve phone sex? Think again. Turns out the emails between Gen. Allen and Jill Kelley weren’t harmless. They were salacious, sexual and resembled phone sex more than anything. We’re delighted by this news.

Measure B, requiring actors starring in adult films produced in Los Angeles County to wear condoms, passed 56%-44% on November 6th. There are reasonable arguments to be made in favor of and in opposition to the measure. Those in favor cite the spread of STDs as a public health concern and thus within the purview of regulation. Opponents argue the measure is an encroachment on First Amendment rights and reflects a broader trend of the erosion of civil liberties. We fall somewhere in the middle of this debate, not out of lack of principle but as a general acknowledgment that the issue is complicated. Having said that, no one likes condoms in their porn. With that in mind, we oppose the measure. Hang loose and free!

And a fire ignited at a spa raided for a prostitution ring. We know prostitution can be hot, but didn’t know it could get this hot…

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Men cheat, women cheat. It’s a fact of life. People have cheated for centuries. It was outlawed in the Ten Commandments and has been explored extensively in literature, film, art and music throughout time. It’s a subject that incites passion and stokes visceral reaction. No matter how prevalent it has been over time, predictable questions remain. What exactly constitutes cheating and why do men and women alike do it? These questions are clearly open to debate. However, what remains clear is that, whatever may or may not be cheating, phone sex does not fall into the category.

The question of why men and women cheat has been the subject of fierce debate across academia and society at large. Biologists point to chemicals in the brain, such as an abundance of testosterone. Psychologists say it’s due to neuro-receptors and “flight/fight” responses. Sociologists claim society is somewhat “tolerant” of men’s deeds, especially in comparison to women. Men often argue that marital and relationship problems lead men elsewhere. Women counter that men are often aloof and disinterested, thus motivating women to seek attention from other people. The arguments vary but the conclusion does not – there is no consensus explanation for why men and women cheat.

When people think of cheating, they often think of adultery (and affairs), but the two are quite different. As defined by Merriam-Webster, adultery is, “the voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husband.” The defining characteristic of adultery is intercourse. And an affair is merely marriage-less adultery. Therefore, by definition, without intercourse, it is not adultery nor is it an affair. Cheating, of course, is not limited to adultery and affairs. Granted the definition of cheating varies widely across time and space, cultures and countries; but there happens to be one universal characteristic of cheating, and that characteristic is physical intimacy.

Intimacy isn’t necessarily the conventional candlelit dinner with a bottle of red wine. Plenty of dates start this way and end up disastrous. Intimacy is a certain type of physical and emotional connection. It’s romantic in tone but often purely sexual in nature. Cheating involves a level of physical intimacy. When a man kisses a woman other than the one he’s in relationship with, he’s cheating. When a wife sleeps with someone other than her spouse, she’s cheating (and having an affair, in this case). Without physical intimacy, it isn’t cheating.

Phone sex isn’t cheating because it lacks physical intimacy. Indeed the type of conversation that usually occurs is overtly sexual, but because it lacks a physical element, it is not cheating. In a similar way that flirting with someone you’ve just met isn’t (generally) physical and therefore isn’t considered cheating, neither is phone sex. Phone sex maintains a level of distance and anonymity. It lacks intimacy. There isn’t a physical connection whatsoever. It is impossible to consider phone sex cheating.

Ladies and gentlemen, pick up the phone, dial a raunchy number and phone sex away (and don’t worry, you’re not cheating).

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